Welcome!
I've been married over 35 years. And having worked over 15 years with people in relational distress, I understand some consistent truths in our relationships. Here are a few of those truths:
We have insecurities that can only be well managed through healthy, loving relational acceptance.
Tell your partner about his problem, build a wall. Tell your partner about your experience with him, build a bridge
In our communication, our message often gets lost in our method
We inherit some emotional immaturity of our parents. We don't have to pass the immaturity down .
Humility is the quickest way to change any relationship.
What we keep concealed, may not be healed.

Meet Cathie Walling 
With an MA degree in Counseling from Cornerstone University and a license in Clinical Pastoral Counseling, I’ve been trained with the highest ethical counseling standards that exist to help couples. The basis of my professional training and education exists in Attachment Science, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and Creation Therapy.