Talking to my spouse about our sex life

Conversation Starters

about Sexuality

1. How do you feel about our love making/sex life? You could use a 1-10 scale to describe.

2. Do we do enough touching in our relationship as far as you’re concerned?

3. Can you tell me what little things create desire for you that relate to what I can do or not do? Or what I used to do?

4. Is there one thing in foreplay that almost always helps create arousal for you?

5. Is there something that goes through your mind, while we are physically engaged that often prevents a climax for you? Is there a way I can help?

6. Tell a story about a specific time or time period when love-making was very satisfying and why.